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  • Published: 15 May 2009
  • ISBN: 9780099507734
  • Imprint: Vintage
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 320
  • RRP: $32.99

Becoming Drusilla

One Life, Two Friends, Three Genders



Funny, brilliant, original: the story of a friendship between two men and what happened when one of them announced he was becoming a woman.


‘A brave and intelligent book’ Daily Telegraph
An unforgettable memoir about gender, journeys and enduring friendship

For years Richard Beard would take spontaneous holidays with his motor-cycling friend Drew. They would spend a few days walking, camping, cycling, canoeing - outdoor, manly fun - before returning to everyday life: wives, children, jobs. Richard was writing novels. Drew was working in the engine-room of cross-channel passenger ferries. Then one year Drew phoned to announce a complication: he was planning to transition and begin living as a woman.

This is the story of how Drew became Dru, of what happened to their friendship, and their adventures in wildest Wales the first time they went camping as man and woman. It is warm, sad, funny; an intimate tale of shared humanity.

  • Published: 15 May 2009
  • ISBN: 9780099507734
  • Imprint: Vintage
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 320
  • RRP: $32.99

About the author

Richard Beard

Richard Beard is the author of Acts of the Assassins which was shortlisted for the Goldsmiths Prize and most recently, The Day That Went Missing. In the twenty years since his first book he has published critically acclaimed novels and narrative non-fiction, including Becoming Drusilla, the story of how a friendship between two men was changed by a gender transition. He was formerly director of the National Academy of Writing in London, and is now a visiting professor at the University of Tokyo and has a Creative Writing Fellowship at the University of East Anglia. He is an optimistic opening batsman for the Authors Cricket Club.

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Praise for Becoming Drusilla

A wonderfully sympathetic account of how and, possibly, why Drew became Dru

Daily Mail

This very personal story of how the friendship between two men had to be completely re-evaluated when one of them had a sex change is written in an honest and deeply thoughtful way and is totally devoid of any sensationalism or prurience

reFresh magazine

A gentle, wise and touching book, full of warmth, humour, friendship and humanity

Literary Review

A brave and intelligent book

Daily Telegraph

This beautifully-written and thoroughly well-researched book is Beard's searingly honest attempt to understand what his friend had gone through ... It is deliciously un-PC, unpreachy, refreshingly free of sentimentality, and, at times, drily comic... touching and life affirming. It left me marvelling about human nature. There aren't many of those kinds of books about

Dermond Moore, Irish Post