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  • Published: 15 February 2022
  • ISBN: 9781787635234
  • Imprint: Bantam Press
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 240
  • RRP: $35.00

Block, Delete, Move On

It's not you, it's them : The instant Sunday Times bestseller




The debut hardback from Instagram sensation @lalalaletmeexplain delves into the highs and lows of modern day dating, to give raw and honest advice on topics that people are often too embarrassed or afraid to talk about.

Have you ever been on a disastrous date and vowed never to use apps again?
Are you blaming yourself for the things going wrong in your love life?
Do you always seem to become attached to people who treat you badly?

The sad truth is that when it comes to modern dating, there are a whole host of challenges and hurdles to overcome. From ghosting and negging to gaslighting and abuse, this book teaches you what to look out for, to make sure that you're not accidentally dating men with toxic traits who secretly hate women, or who just want to have sex and run.

It will empower you to use your voice and walk away if you spot warning signs in relationships, by highlighting the red flags and the types of fuckboy that you might run into when dating, as well as the green flags and signs that indicate a healthy partnership.

This is not a dating book that promises to find you a person to love; instead, it will help you spot the troublesome ones before it is too late. It will help you to recognise that you possess spectacular buff ting energy and that it's perfectly possible to be contentedly single.

Most importantly, this book will give you the power to BLOCK, DELETE and MOVE ON with living your best life.

  • Published: 15 February 2022
  • ISBN: 9781787635234
  • Imprint: Bantam Press
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 240
  • RRP: $35.00

About the author

Lalalaletmeexplain

Lalalaletmeexplain is the anonymous relationships expert who delves into the highs and lows of modern day dating to give raw and honest advice on topics that people are often too embarrassed or afraid to talk about. A qualified social worker and dating & relationships educator, she left her 15 year career in the public sector in 2018 to bring her professional knowledge to social media.

Praise for Block, Delete, Move On

Everyone currently on the dating scene needs to read this right now.

Cosmopolitan</i>'s hot new releases

This book will change lives. Lala addresses unsavoury topics usually brushed under the carpet and gives super-smart advice. I cannot recommend this book enough.

</i>Tracey Cox

Thanks to the nature of my job I read a lot of books on relationships and dating. This is possibly THE best I have ever read. If you, like so many, are struggling with modern dating (apps, gaslighting, abuse, negging, ghosting) then get this brilliant book. It is helpful, empowering and clarifies so much of the haze.

</i>Jess Megan

A mix of dispatches from the front line of dating plus expert advice: expect everything from how to understand your attachment type to why 'conscious celibacy' could be the best thing you try this year.

Sunday Times Style

Dating in 2022 is far from easy - but luckily Lala has written the bible for single women everywhere. It aims to empower women to know their worth and help them enjoy their single status.

Sunday Mirror

Lala's guide is a must-read for every modern dater.

OK! Magazine

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