Paper Love

"A hidden trove of letters sparks Sarah Wildman's feat of historical detective work, Paper Love, which probes her family's 'myth of a spotless escape' from Europe in 1938--and recaptures the voice of a young woman doctor caught in a tightening web, and the textures and emotions of her vanished world."--Vogue

"Wildman meticulously pieces together the brave and tragic life of the woman her grandfather left behind when he fled Austria on the eve of World War II."--O, The Oprah Magazine

"In the abyss of one of history's greatest tragedies, does one person's story matter? This is the question at the heart of Sarah Wildman's Paper Love, a memoir of chasing a ghost--specifically, the ghost of Valy Scheftel, a woman Wildman's grandfather left behind when he miraculously escaped Nazi-occupied Vienna. . . . The growing obsession with the mystery woman is the memoir's catalyst. It sends Wildman on a journey across Europe and against time, trying to trace Valy's life while Holocaust survivors still live, the window of opportunity as slight as her grandfather's shot at getting out of Nazi territory before he was captured. Her impeccable research structures the book as a historical narrative on the annexation of Europe and the psychological torture of the Jewish people as hope was slowly extinguished. . . . Only by taking the time to wonder and mourn the extinguishing of a single brilliant, magical existence can we comprehend the millions of others. In Paper Love, Wildman does not bring us the story of a race that is doomed. She shines a light on its boundless potential."--Bustle

"Sarah Wildman's Paper Love [is] a gripping memoir about her grandfather, his escape from Austria . . . and a family secret. . . . Compelling."--Conde Nast Traveler

"Ignore anyone who tells you there is nothing more to be said about the Holocaust, and no new ways of telling the tragedy. Sarah Wildman's gripping, tender, beautifully painful book gets to the heart of the matter through matters of the heart. And along with the pathos and pain, there is profound and honest thoughtfulness too. "--Simon Schama, author of The Story of the Jews

"In her riveting family history, Paper Love, Wildman tracks down her grandfather's story and discovers that there are no simple truths from that time, and definitely no easy answers."--Minneapolis Star-Tribune

"This profound book derives its power not so much from the love story at its heart, but from the historical urgency with which Wildman infuses it. The author makes clear that only by engaging with inherited past trauma deeply and fully can individuals and communities begin the long and difficult process of looking for ways to regain wholeness. A poignant and humane memoir."--Kirkus

"Wildman's extensive investigation into her grandfather's history is well documented and analyzed, but it is her determination to find out what happened to Valy, a woman at the periphery of the family circle, that distinguishes this family history. The author's gradual realization that others cared about Valy's fate, too, led her to a larger understanding of the unbearable circumstances and decisions faced by everyone involved, even those lucky enough to establish new lives elsewhere."--Library Journal (starred)

"Wildman's intimate and mesmerizing biography blends her family history into the larger framework of World War II and the Holocaust."--Publishers Weekly

"Wildman's personal investment in this Holocaust-era narrative heightens the tension and raises the emotional stakes as her investigation unfolds."--Booklist

"Paper Love is a Holocaust memoir, a survivor's tale and a detective story all at once. . . . In an increasingly digital age, I was staggered by Wildman's description of the paper records that still exist, accounting for thousands of people both lost and found. Paper Love is an intimate portrait of a woman caught in the Nazi net--a woman who might have been forgotten without Wildman's efforts. In telling Valy's story, Wildman reflects on the stories we tell about our own pasts, what we include and what--and who--we leave out."--Bookpage

"In this captivating and elegantly written book, Sarah Wildman uses the story of a single, fascinating but utterly normal woman to illuminate the tragedy of the millions murdered during the Holocaust. Though the themes are universal--family, memory, myth--what makes this remarkable book shine is the way Wildman brings to life a person lost to history, making us care desperately both for her and for her vanished world."--Ayelet Waldman, author of Love and Treasure


"In spellbinding prose, Sarah Wildman traces her quest to understand what happened to her grandfather's mysterious lover whom he had to leave behind when he fled Vienna in 1938. Revealing deeper truths about history and the tricky nature of memory, Paper Love is a breathtakingly powerful and beautiful new book."--David Grann, author of The Lost City of Z

"Paper Love begins with a quest for a lost lover, and then radically inverts that path. Here the search becomes a tale of not one person, but of how each person is so much more than one, how no single life has meaning without all the others that encircle it. Wildman's spellbinding story, with its dramatic and unexpected twists, breathes each forgotten person back to life."--Dara Horn, author of The World To Come

"Sarah Wildman is a member of the last generation of young Jews who grew up in families presided over by Holocaust survivors and their stories--both the reliable tales and the necessary myths. Wildman long ago turned her attention to the complex afterlife of the Holocaust, and this book--thoroughly researched, adventurously reported, and vulnerably written--has fulfilled her promise as the most important literary representative of her generation."--Gideon Lewis-Kraus, author of A Sense of Direction

"[Paper Love] powerfully touches on issues of memory, loss and identity--that of both subject and author."--Jewish Woman Magazine