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  • Published: 21 January 2020
  • ISBN: 9781590510568
  • Imprint: Other Press
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 288
  • RRP: $36.00

Parents Under the Influence

Words of Wisdom from a Former Bad Mother




Part American and part French, part memoir and part guide, this book offers a fresh, unique, and powerful perspective on the challenges of parenting and how to find a rewarding path forward for parents and children alike.

Part American and part French, part memoir and part guide, this book offers a fresh, unique, and powerful perspective on the challenges of parenting and how to find a rewarding path forward for parents and children alike.

How should we raise our children? It should be a simple enough question to answer but in fact it is an intimidating and complex one. We often address it by deciding to do either exactly what our parents did or just the opposite. After that we rely on a cocktail of love and instinct, hoping it will be enough to overcome the difficulties ahead.

Far from having perfect free will, however, we are all under the influence. The child still within us confuses, influences, or undermines all our aspirations as parents and prevents us from sticking to the philosophy we initially hoped to follow. These unresolved emotions drive us to reproduce the upbringing we received, including the behaviors that have hurt us the most.

In Parents Under the Influence, Cécile David-Weill draws on her own parenting blunders and successes as well as concrete examples, case studies, and works of fiction to guide readers, helping them heal from the past and become effective, nurturing parents.

  • Published: 21 January 2020
  • ISBN: 9781590510568
  • Imprint: Other Press
  • Format: Paperback
  • Pages: 288
  • RRP: $36.00

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Praise for The Suitors:

"A charming peek behind the curtain of French high society as only the ultimate insider can. Cécile David-Weill's novel is a delicious romp and I loved reading it!" --Ina Garten, Barefoot Contessa cookbooks and TV

"Cécile David-Weill's delightful novel of manners is a witty mix of wisdom and tongue-in-cheek humor touched with a decadent zest of Frenchiness. Irrésistible!" --Tatiana de Rosnay, author of The House I Loved, A Secret Kept, and Sarah's Key

"[A] smart novel de charme...The intimate, fascinating detail with which Cécile David-Weill describes this society...is what elevates this book from a mere romp through old-money families of France into an intelligent, engaging study of a society that seems as if it should be extinct by now." --Oprah.com

"The Suitors sets out to be a farce and a frolic, but throughout there is an undertone of nostalgia and wistfulness for a disappearing way of life." --Wall Street Journal

"Deceptively charming and delightful, this novel...portrays class issues and changing mores with the kind of intelligent taste that would make the Ettinguers proud." --Library Journal