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  • Published: 1 April 2025
  • ISBN: 9781761346002
  • Imprint: Penguin eBooks
  • Format: EBook
  • Pages: 320
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The Sex Lives of Married Women





A sexy, funny, surprising tale of female friendship, bedrooms and marriage.

Escaping her ‘model migrant’ family life in Australia, Meena flourished in London. After falling pregnant, she and her boyfriend, Owen, fall in love with baby Sasha and bravely head to Sydney. But now Owen barely looks at Meena.

On a backpacking holiday, Sophie meets Todd. After a whirlwind romance she throws in her rising career in New York and follows Todd to Sydney, where she has committed to being the perfect wife, mother, and BFF to Meena. But now Todd’s talking about a treechange, and Sophie’s not sure if the life she built is the one she wants.

Rani came to Australia as an international student and met her husband Daniyal. But raising her son Ali while navigating her husband’s late nights has left her lonely. A simple act of rebellion threatens to upend her marriage, but could it also set her free?

When their paths collide, Meena, Sophie, and Rani form an unlikely alliance. Over coffee, cocktails, and confessions, they share the messy, hilarious truths about marriage, motherhood, and what they really want.

Raw, funny, and heartbreakingly relatable, The Sex Lives of Married Women is an unflinching exploration of the secret lives we all lead and the friendships that keep us going.

  • Published: 1 April 2025
  • ISBN: 9781761346002
  • Imprint: Penguin eBooks
  • Format: EBook
  • Pages: 320
Categories:

About the author

Saman Shad

Saman Shad is a writer, journalist, and playwright whose storytelling spans stage, screen, and page. In the UK, she was a scriptwriter for BBC Radio, and after relocating to Australia she created programs for the ABC and became a sought-after voice in journalism, contributing regularly to The Guardian, Sydney Morning Herald, ABC News, and SBS. Her plays have been commissioned by theatres in both London and Sydney. She has received development funding from Screen Australia for a feature film, as well as contributing to a number of screen projects. Her debut novel, The Matchmaker, was published by Penguin Australia in 2023, earning praise for its witty exploration of modern love and cultural identity. The Sex Lives of Married Women is her latest novel.

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Praise for The Sex Lives of Married Women

Marriage, motherhood, sex: excellent. Congratulations!

Madeleine Gray

The novel's strength is in its depiction of friendship, especially among women wrestling with who they used to be and who they've become. The conversations - funny, intimate, slightly desperate, annoyed but trying not to be ... capture the strange mix of nostalgia and disorientation that often shadows middle age. It ultimately offers and energetic sprint on race, choice, change and the quiet rebellions hidden in plain sight.

Amy Gray, The Saturday Paper

Readers at a crossroads in life, those who enjoy stories about female friendship, and fans of Marian Keyes or novels about contemporary womanhood will find much to appreciate.

Marina Sano, Bookseller + Publisher

Three women bond over their marriage issues, their burning desires and their wildest dreams. Confessions are spilled over coffee and cocktails as the women navigate motherhood, misunderstandings and ... masturbation. Yes, there's still plenty of sex nestled between the important topics of female friendship, privilege and purpose.

The Australian Women's Weekly

The Sex Lives of Married Women feels like the kind of book that will be quietly passed around the SUVs at school pickup. Come for the risque title, stay for the deep and intersectional exploration of friendship, marriage, parenting and privilege. Saman Shad expertly pivots to darker, deeper territory in this compelling novel about desire, secrets and shame.

Clare Fletcher

Funny and pognant. It reveals the interior lives of women who seem to have their shit together but who, behind closed doors, grapple with more than you might expect.

Katharine Pollock

A story of friendship, relationships, parenthood and the migrant experience.

Cheryl Akle, The Australian

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