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  • Published: 16 February 2021
  • ISBN: 9781787632837
  • Imprint: Bantam Press
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 336
  • RRP: $35.00

The Panic Years




Raw, hilarious and disarmingly honest, The Panic Years by renowned journalist Nell Frizzell, is an arm around the shoulder for every woman trying to navigate life’s big decisions against the backdrop of the mother of all questions: should I have a baby?

As featured on The High-Low podcast.'Every millennial woman should have it on her bookshelf' Pandora Sykes'As informative as it is poetic' Dolly Alderton

The Panic Years: something between adolescence and menopause, a personal crisis, a transformation.

The panic years can hit at any time but they are most commonly triggered somewhere between the ages of twenty-five and forty. During this time, every decision a woman makes - from postcode to partner, friends to family, work to weekends - will be impacted by the urgency of the one decision with a deadline, the one decision that is impossible to take back: whether or not to have a baby.

But how to stay sane in such a maddening time?How to understand who you are and what you might want from life?How to know if you're making the right decisions?

Raw, hilarious and beguilingly honest, Nell Frizzell's account of her panic years is both an arm around the shoulder and a campaign to start a conversation. This affects us all - women, men, mothers, children, partners, friends, colleagues - so it's time we started talking about it with a little more candour.

'Vital reading. Nell Frizzell is a master.' Rob Delaney, co-writer and co-star of Catastrophe

  • Published: 16 February 2021
  • ISBN: 9781787632837
  • Imprint: Bantam Press
  • Format: Hardback
  • Pages: 336
  • RRP: $35.00

About the author

Nell Frizzell

Nell Frizzell is a journalist, writer and Vogue columnist. She has written for The Guardian, VICE, The Telegraph, Elle, The Observer, Grazia, I-D among many others. Her first book The Panic Years is an exploration of bodies, babies and the big questions facing modern life.

Praise for The Panic Years

Nell Frizzell’s thoughts on womanhood and motherhood are as informative as they are poetic. Writing that challenges and enlightens you just as much as it entertains and stimulates you is rare, this book confidently does both on an important and complicated topic for modern women

</i>Dolly Alderton

Searingly honest, witty and moving. For anyone who knows what it's like to simultaneously want to weep with joy and throw your child out of the window, Frizzell is a very welcome voice in the conversation on motherhood.

Vogue

There is so much about womanhood that feels indefinable. And yet with her definitions of the flux, and the panic years, Nell manages to define the indefinable - as well as uniting childfree women and mothers, where the two are so often pitted against one another. Lyrical, moving and thorough, this is a memoir, a feminist text and a piece of social commentary. Every millennial woman should have it on her bookshelf.

</i>Pandora Sykes

Heartening, eye-opening, hilarious. I'm glad Nell has given this weird time a term we can all use.

Emma Gannon

A wonderful, candid memoir about the personal and political implications of motherhood, full of humour and fizzing prose. I loved it.

</i>Luiza Sauma, author of <i>Flesh and Bone </i>and <i>Everything You Ever Wanted

Lively, informative… Nell uses her own experience generously and the effect is inclusive, reassuring and funny, She articulates feelings I’ve had but never quite explored – it’s excellent

</i>Amy Liptrot

The Panic Years made me laugh and it made me cry. There’s a rare tenderness to this book that comes from not having felt seen before. It’s for our generation, and Nell gets it. She understands and respects us.

</i>Rhiannon Cosslett

For someone older, in a different set of panic years altogether, part of the pleasure of this book lies in reminiscence, reflecting and reframing. But it’s also galvanising, engaging and enraging. The personal is political, philosophical, emotional, and very funny. I resisted the urge to highlight everything that made me laugh, or think, or fired me up, because the whole thing would have been one big neon block

</i>Jenny Landreth

Breathtakingly good

</i>Lauren Bravo

Informs, educates, entertains... This book will resonate with so many readers.

Red</i>'s top picks of 2020

Brilliant

Grazia

A must-read... sharp, funny, it chronicles all of the big decisions a woman is expected to make between the ages of 25-40: where to live, if they should marry, what to do with one's career. And that other biggie: to have a baby or not.

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