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  • Published: 31 January 2023
  • ISBN: 9780143776772
  • Imprint: Penguin
  • Format: Trade Paperback
  • Pages: 336
  • RRP: $40.00

The Queen's Wife




A modern love story: whakapapa, archaeology, art and heartbreak.

A memoir of a turbulent time — and a chess game that broke all the rules.


In 1989, two married women met by chance. They instantly hit it off, but little did they know that their new relationship would turn their lives upside-down.

This is the true story of that relationship, which threatened to cost them their children, families and friends and forced them to reassess their sexuality, identity and heritage. Along the way, one — an acclaimed biographer — was to explore the power of objects, while the other — a painter — was to follow her whakapapa back to the first Maori king, Te Wherowhero.

Against the odds, the couple’s new life together became rich in laughter, travel, unusual encounters, investigations into Viking raids, the Kingitanga movement, the death of a New Zealand artist, chicken claws, ghosts, eccentrics and much more. A fascinating read on so many levels, this is an important view of our country from its very edge.

  • Published: 31 January 2023
  • ISBN: 9780143776772
  • Imprint: Penguin
  • Format: Trade Paperback
  • Pages: 336
  • RRP: $40.00

About the author

Joanne Drayton

Joanne Drayton is an acclaimed New Zealand author whose output is globally recognised. Her book Hudson & Halls: The Food of Love was the winner of the Royal Society Te Aparangi Award for General Non-Fiction at the Ockham New Zealand Book Awards in May 2019, and was a cover story for the NZ Listener in October 2018.

Joanne’s The Search for Anne Perry was numbered in the top 10 non-fiction books on the New York Times BESTSELLER list. It was a finalist in the prestigious New Zealand Book Awards in August 2013, the subject of a 60 Minutes programme and a cover story for the NZ Listener. It is an 'important' and ‘beguiling’ read that has received excellent reviews. Both The Search for Anne Perry and Hudson & Halls: The Food of Love have been optioned for feature films.

Her critically acclaimed Ngaio Marsh: Her Life in Crime (2008) was a Christmas pick of the Independent newspaper when it was released in the UK in 2009. Her other biographies of expatriate painters include Frances Hodgkins: A Private Viewing (Random House, 2005); Rhona Haszard: An Experimental Expatriate NZ Artist (CUP, 2002); and Edith Collier: Her Life and Work (CUP, 1999). She has curated exhibitions and publishes in art history, theory and biography. In 2007, she was awarded a National Library Fellowship, and in 2017 the prestigious Logan Fellowship at the Carey Institute in Upstate New York.

Joanne is a research associate at the University of Auckland and an English teacher at Avondale College. She lives in Auckland, New Zealand, with her partner and three cats.

Praise for The Queen's Wife

The Queen’s Wife is a deeply personal account of an unconventional love story that intertwines personal whakapapa with the history of an heirloom chess set . . . So much is folded into this story it is hard to do it justice in a review . . . That the struggle they experienced is still very real and present in homes and families in Aotearoa makes this a necessary read. But Jo Drayton is first and foremost a writer who is interested in story. The drama of her personal life spilling over into her own professional life is artfully played. She is clever and funny, drawing the readers into an intimate account of a patriarchal system yet to be reformed . . . If ever there is a metaphor in this book it is that challenges trigger growth. Drayton has the ability to lay out the board and the players. She has a proven ability to observe and evaluate and she does so with such style and compassion and so much heart.

Liz Eagles, Woman+

The Queen’s Wife is unlike anything I’ve read. Sure, it’s a memoir but it pushes against the normative structures and account of one’s life in a refreshing way – it’s experimental, novel and undeniably queer – perfectly matching its subject matter. Though, when I come to describe what The Queen’s Wife is about, I struggle to do it justice – it’s a love story, an historical epic, a journey through time, a story of identity, whakapapa, heritage, as well as queer and lesbian sexuality – each element like the jewel of a reliquary, each singular and speaking to a whole. Like a game, The Queen’s Wife is also shadowed by moves that threatened to cost Drayton and Marshall their children, family, friends and livelihoods. This is a book that defies a singular description. There are parts that sing out to you and others that quietly reverberate throughout. Embrace it because you’re in for a treat. . . . . The Queen’s Wife will connect and inspire readers in different ways. Some will love the threads of identity and heritage, others will coil themselves into a knot over the court and law accounts, some will stroll through it as if walking through an art gallery – different pieces will draw you in, you will contemplate – and others will feel as if they’ve lumbered through a storm. I fell in love with the intimate game they played and know by heart, so much that I found myself returning to the chapters that recount how they met, the stories that detail their brilliant resourcefulness so as to carve a bit of space, such as the shop front studio they rented to be able to write, make art and have sex – the landlord who heard their moaning and groaning, thinking the building to be haunted. The humour and play pulls readers through the moments that make the heart wince, understanding why it was a game they could not lose.

Demi Cox, Kete

Drayton provides plenty of light relief from the sturm und drang which crashes around most of the pages . . . There is also support from a rich cast of generally colourful and occasionally downright bonkers characters.

Paul Little, North & South

There is much to admire, not least Drayton’s crisp writing style, moments of humour, and bravery in sharing what is at times a harrowing, though never overwrought, account of love and loss. It’s a full and rich feast, even if it takes a while to digest.

Patricia Bell, NZ Booklovers

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